CELEBRATE THE VALENTINE MONTH BY GIFTING YOURSELF SELF-CARE
This year, instead of writing about how to celebrate the love month with your beloved (could be a partner, parent, friend or even a dog). I am going to instead talk about how to love the one person closest to you. Yourself. Corny, yes. Unnecessary , no. Many women treat their bodies —– and their heart, kidney, liver, and lungs —– with little semblance of self-love. Most are so busy putting the needs of other people — their spouses, careers, kids —- before themselves that they forgot they are equally deserving of the attention. Shower a bit of love on yourself by:
EATING SMART
This seems hard when life is overwhelming but it’s surprisingly easy to balance indulgences with healthfulness. Instead of overloading your system, take care of yourself by eating at home most of the week, and practising portion control when you’re out. Nourish yourself with good quality carbs (including vegetables and fruits), protein (lean meats, quinoa, dal, egg and seafood) and unsaturated fats so that you get your daily dose of vitamins and minerals. And avoid things that come in boxes, packets or tins.
EATING FREQUENTLY
Gift yourself better metabolism by eating every two hours. Did you know that apart from walking, jogging or even breathing, digestion is a calorie-burning activity? By breaking up four main meals (breakfast, lunch, teatime snacks, dinner) into eight small meals (two hours apart), your body burns some of the calories as you eat them, putting your body constantly in the ‘gym’.
EXERCISING
Exercise is one of the best way to show yourself you care. Try exercising for an hour a day: walking, jogging, or even aerobic dance, coupled with light weight training. You could break up the hours into 20 or 30 minute blocks in the day.
HYDRATING
Keeping the body hydrated helps the heart more easily pumps blood through the blood vessels to the muscles. And, it helps the muscles work efficiently. Hydrate your life by drinking water because it helps in the daily functioning of your body, which helps in maintaining its equilibrium.
GETTING YOUR DAILY DOSE OF ANTIOXIDANTS
You can do this by drinking a glass of vegetables juice every day. Blend three different raw vegetables in a mixie (not a juicer), add half of pulp to a glass, top with water and season. Drink immediately to enjoy a host of wonderful antioxidants that flush out your system of toxins. You’d be doing your body — and your life — a great service.
Compact, high-value, low-calorie snacks
If you’ve been reading my columns, you would now know that eating every two hours is the backbone of my nutritional philosophy – it is a guaranteed way to jump start your metabolism, lose weight and keep it off. Four healthy main meals (breakfast, lunch, teatime and dinner) and four fillers in between these meals is the goal, and it has given my clients long-lasting and consistent results over the last 15 years. Whether or not this is something you follow, there will always be a universal need for meals between meals. Healthy, nourishing fillers that not only keep hunger at arm’s length but also pre-empt that unplanned late-morning or early-evening bingeing on muffins, cupcakes, and samosas, and other foods you hadn’t set out to eat.
EASY SNACKING
Here are some tried-and-tested filler options:
- Fruit: Cut in pieces in an airtight box for convenience but whole is preferred.
- Chana: Can stay in your bag for days without a problem.
- Kurmura: By itself or lightly roasted with turmeric, salt and curry leaves in a tiny amount of oil.
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- Diet khakra: The smaller the size, the easier it is to handle.
- Carrot/cucumber sticks: This could also be accompanied by a dollop of hung curd dip. Made with skimmed curds, of course.
- Sandwich (four pieces): Cut a low-fat sandwich into four pieces, eating two at a time.
- Stuffed roti/thepla: Use buttermilk, not water, for the dough.
- Dry fruit: Almonds, pistachios, walnuts, raisins, dates.
- Roasted makhanas (homemade): Don’t be fooled by the commercially available ones. The masala sticks to them simply because they are loaded with oil.
- Popcorn: Homemade, not the microwavable one, which may be preserved in larde or trans fat.
- Dry roasted sprouts:You can make this fun with onions, sliced green chilli, tomatoes and a slice of lime.
THINKING INSIDE THE BOX
You can also come up with your own fillers based on the examples above. What are the hallmarks of a good filler? Foods that are low in calories, low in fat, help stave off cravings and add some nutritional value to your body. It’s also better if they are easy to carry, dry, and can be eaten without making a mess. But not all healthy snacks are created equal. For example, some store-bought energy bars may not be high in calories but will be high in sugars, which make you want to eat more sugar. They may not necessarily add too much nutritional value either. Do read the labels before venturing into the land of commercially available diet snacks. Not all are bad but you must know what you are getting into. Happy snacking.
Willpower is probably one of weight loss most misunderstood components. From high-calorie eating and a couch-potato life, many expect that the couch will be replaced by the treadmill, the high-fat diet by a low-fat one, desserts will be effortlessly refused and cocktails will be painlessly brushed aside for a glass of water. The truth is that willpower is a muscle. And the more you use this muscle, the stronger it becomes:
SPEED BUMPS ALONG THE WAY
When starting a new diet or exercise regime, expect to face difficulties. Expect to find it hard to refuse that last cupcake. Expect to find it hard to wake up in time for exercise. Try not to have an all-or-nothing approach where one blip on a diet means you’ll be eating unhealthily for the rest of the day. If you slip and you will dust off your mistake, and reset your diet.
MAKE IT EASIER
You can also do things that don’t test your willpower. Eat at home before parties to avoid bingeing on food, stay away from people who encourage you to break your diet and visualise yourself enjoying social occasions by focusing on the conversation, not the food. You can also take a healthy salad/dish with you to parties if your host permits and slowly partake of that, eating less of the others. And cut all junk food from the house. You won’t need to resist temptation if there is no temptation to resist.
LIGHT AT THE OTHER END
After building your willpower, you will find it is easier to say no. Over time, you will realise that you don’t miss the foods that you had worked so hard to avoid. This may take weeks, or even months for some, but once your on the other side, chances are you find it as difficult to get back to your old lifestyle as you had found adjusting to your new one.
I can honestly say that children have far more hectic social lives than adults do. From birthday parties and festivals to school events, they are out of the door as soon as they come in. The little ones now have big lives and with their `big little’ lives, come big problems. From cakes, pastries, ice-creams to popsicles served at various events and birthday parties that they attend, kids now have far more access to sweets.
Sugar is bad for children’s teeth, metabolism, concentration, weight maintenance, energy and fitness levels… the list goes on. So how does a parent tackle the festival season? By being inventive. Here’s how you can regulate sweets for your sweet.
TEACH, DON’T TELL
Instead of stating sweets are bad, tell them exactly why. I find kids today are far more in quisitive than ever before, and it may be good to inform them of the very real consequences of eat ing excess sugar. You can simply tell them or use the inter net to explain it through short videos. You can check the con tent before traumatising them too much you’d be surprised at how much they imbibe.
PREPARE, DON’T EXPECT
Instead of crossing your fingers and hoping your host puts something healthy on the table, you could make-and-take. Instead of taking a bottle of wine or a candle set as a gift for the next adult-and kids soirée, you could consider taking a dessert brimming with healthy ingredients.
SAVOUR, DON’T SWEETEN
You don’t always have to take something sweet. Hot snacks like baked samosas, home fries, poha, upma or even healthy toasted sandwiches could satiate even the fussiest appetites. Figure out how you can pull kids to wards the healthy food by using fun shapes and food colours at the next party you host.
PACK, DON’T ATTACK
You could also halve your child’s intake of unhealthy foods by packing half a dessert in the lunch box. A nice little treat in the school dabba gives them bragging rights and will never fail to delight. Another trick to ensure that your kid gets adequate nutrition is to feed your child before they land up at their event so that the delicacies on display have limited appeal. A glass of milk could fill up their little stomachs before their 4 pm party at the neighbour’s. This trick works beautifully for adults too, who want to maintain their weight. Just saying.
Dear Pooja,
I am a 33-year-old woman. I have two children — while my first born was a normal delivery, i had a C-section for my second one. However, both were premature babies, born at just seven months. After my deliveries, I started gaining weight and from 60kgs, I reached 76kgs. I admit I do not have healthy eating habits — irratic timings and junk food are to blame. This has caused health problems like high cholesterol, spondylitis, spine problems and fatigue. I’ve finally reached a point where I want to follow a healthy diet and lose weight. What foods should I eat and what should I absolutely avoid? Please help.
Aaliya just so many of us women forget all about our body and its needs when motherhood dawns on us that we wake up just when too many alarms signs are screaming in our face- diabetes, high cholesterol, hypertension and the list can be long. Maternal fat does not have to be eternal. We must realize that by ignoring our health and nutrition it will take a toll on the health of the whole family. Only a women that has a good diet can have good energy levels, good moods, less pms, better memory, more patience and understanding, better multi-tasking, more alertness and isn’t that what we women are all about? Family, children, work and the many relationships we marry are all before us, but don’t put them before your health. Post delivery focus on basic good nutrition and exercise. Anyways it’s never too late. Do get in touch with a good nutritionist so that she can plan a healthy weight loss diet keeping all your health parameters in mind. Sadly I wont be able to do the same through this space.
Dear Pooja,
I am 29-year-old unmarried woman and planning to go for a trek to Manali after two months. Since trekking requires one to have good stamina, I would like to know the right diet that will help me increase my stamina levels. Currently, I feel tired when I run or brisk walk even for a short while. Please let me know which foods I should eat. Thank you.
Lets thank the Manali trip that triggered you to wake up and address the signs your body is giving you. In this roll-a-coaster life where we are so tuned to listening to every beep of our mobile distinguishing the sounds easily between an email, sms or or a what’s app – but the signs our body gives us so easily goes unnoticed. Weakness, breathlessness, poor stamina amongst others are all signals of under-nutrition, vitamins, minerals and/or amino acid deficiencies. Firstly I’d suggest you check your hemoglobin and serum B12 levels and have these deficiencies corrected as low levels of these are directly related to the signs you have mentioned above. Gaining long lasting stamina may take a little more love care and attention in your day-to-day diet and exercise regime over a long-term basis but you should see some definitive improvement within two months as well.
A visit to a nutritionist can teach you what your daily requirement for proteins and carbohydrates is and how to divide this effectively into several small meals to fuel your systems adequately. Keep the focus on good quality and quantity of proteins daily along with a good tilt toward fresh fruits and vegetables. Avoiding excess sugar and fat always goes a long way in terms of a fit and healthy mind and body. As I always suggest eating small meals every two hours not only improves metabolism and aids weight loss, it also makes sure that the body gets a steady supply to energy without any peaks or troughs in the blood sugar levels – this is one main essential for sustain Duracell stamina levels. Sorry I was unable to give you exact foods and quantities cause that requires me to know many details about you to help you in complete totality. All the best, hope you enjoy your trekking trip with great vigour and strength.
Dear Pooja,
I have been an egg lover for years but now that I have reached almost 35, people say i must not have so many eggs in one day. I am not fat, just a little overweight but I end up eating too many eggs in a day. (around three at least) People have asked me to stop eating yolks but that is the tastiest part of the egg, so i cannot! I walk three to four times a week for around 45 minutes… and that is the only exercise i ever do. Should I stop eating eggs? Are they really bad for my age?
Please advise.Eggs and bad? Never! How can something that has so much nutrition and so little calories ever be bad for you? At only 16 calories, the egg white provides a massive 4 grams of protein and is a 100% reference protein, which means that it all has all the nine amino acids needed for full utilisation by the body. Thus I can easily say that consuming about three to four egg whites can be a safe number for most adult to have on a daily basis. Yes, depending on you lipid profile and other healthy parameters, the number of yolks you can have weekly will have to be decided. The yolk may be tasty (for some) but there is some caution needed while having this daily – therefore discuss this with your doctor or nutritionist to get the exact count.
But egg whites are the safest, healthiest and most easily accessible form of complete protein that one should try and include daily. It helps one get better muscle tone, weight loss, stronger and longer hair and nails, lesser sugar cravings, better stamina, more attention and retention powers while studying, lesser aches and pains and this list is endless. Therefore let nobody fool you into stopping the egg whites Shikha, enjoy them daily – guilt free!
Dear Pooja,
I am in college and I have been working out in the gym from the past 5 months. I first started out by doing cardio and rigorous weight training in the gym during my break, then when college started, I started running for 45-50 min in the park. I would sometimes do 50 min cardio in the gym (25 min cross trainer and 25 min running on the treadmill instead for running out in the park). My diet is extremely healthy, I make it a point to eat healthy home cooked meal. I sometimes each red rice or jowar roti or normal roti during meals. I each 3 fruits during the day and plenty of water. As I belong to a Punjabi family, we eat non-vegetarian dishes cooked in minimum oil 5 times in a week. But my mom compensates that with giving us lots of vegetables to each. I eat an egg every day. I don’t indulge in deserts and i avoid fried foods. Despite my efforts, I’ve gained 6 kgs in the past 4 months. Could you help me with the same.
To start with I must say I am happy to hear that as a teenager (assuming that since you said college) you are trying to lose with food and not without it – as most would just think of food as calories and thus the main culprit to weight gain. Food is your sole nurturer and growth provider – never ever shun away from it.
Now to comment on your diet- at the first glance absolutely nothing looks wrong in your eating pattern that would cause this weight to go up – you are doing a good balance of input (food) and output (cardio). It seems to be a good balance of carbs (brown rice, jowar roti), proteins (non veg + egg), vitamins and minerals (3 fruits+ vegetables).
However, Sanjana please note that your input (however healthy) has to within the specific need of your body. When I say ‘need’ I mean that every body has its BMR (basal metabolic rate), which is the minimum calories it needs for its own basic functioning. Weight gain is a consequence when the input is more than the output. To perfectly know your body’s need you could ask for professional advise or even calculate your BMR using online tools that only need your height, weight, age and gender to calculate the same for you. In my book – Eat.Delete I have taught you how to do this and then also pick up a diet as your BMR that will give you the total amount of food you need to eat in a day.
Sadly I have no simply answer to give you for your weight gain – but remember our body is a magnificent machine that works relentlessly day and night – its needs thus are special and require a little fine tuning when we are talking about losing or gaining weight. Learn this delicate balance once and your body will respond to it marvelously and continuously. Whatever you do never give up your faith in food – that then is my mission accomplished!
Dear Pooja,
I am 21. Becoming overweight is my problem. I have put on about 15 kilos of weight in the last three years. I tried many ways – walking, swimming, dieting – but gained weight. I did not get benefits from any of that. Maybe because I expect quick results that I get disappointed. How much time is needed to lose weight? Which is the best healthy and economic way to lose weight?
Just like any vocation or course that you would be currently studying Jwala, the knowledge and the experience will stay with you for the rest of your life not just until you are in university studying it. Similarly food, exercise and body weight all part of a continuous circle. Maintaining body weight is not a one-time effort that you try, succeed or fail and then drop the actions that took you there. You are what you eat – your weight is nothing but a balance of how much you eat and how much you burn (exercise). Learning this art of balance is a one-time deep, rooted-effort that each and every one of us must make and then maintaining your body weight will be easy as the that friend or colleague that you always envy has got it lucky. Walking, swimming and eating – all are calorie burning processes – then why would they not let you lose weight? But while burning the calories through exercise if you are eating just as much or maybe a little more then you cannot see the scale go down. Calculate your need (BMR – through several online tools) and then break up your day’s meals to fit in that number. Now increase the burn by doing an intensity and duration controlled cardio daily – do this consistently for a few weeks (there is no short cut to losing weight) there is no way but to lose that fat that is bothering you. Once you succeed in this effort please do not let go of this awareness and this basic balance of input and output and you shall never have to fight the battle of bulge again.